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KARUPUKAN AT ITS FINEST

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GALAN, DIANA NERIE

I hate all men. Pero kung ikaw? Sure! Coz, why not? We can talk about it naman diva? Like what are you doing ba? Good morning and good night baby! HAHAHAHA

On many social media platforms, men and women show evident vulnerabilities about how MARUPOK they are. Keme nagchat si crush, nag heart lang sa myday o bumalik ang ex ,nangangatog tuhod na sa kilig.

In modern English translation, Marupok would mean “Fragile” or “Weak” in the context of love. You get easily attached to the person even though you haven’t met him. You become weak whenever a good-looking and hot person came by. You tend to commit just based on the sudden emotion you feel. Worst, you break your walls by allowing them in without any challenge at all. 

Are you that marupok I saw near Aling Nena’s tindahan? Yung abot tenga ang ngiti at halos di na nakita yong motor sa kalsada habang tumatawid? Sinipa sipa mo pa yung unan niyo sa sobrang tuwa. Pagkagabi naman hinahalik- halikan mo pa. Yucks. Nakalimutan mo na ring magsaing kasi magkausap pa kayo. Iyong mga iskedyul mong gawin naurong kasi bebe time na kahit wala namang kayo. Paignore message pa e minu-minuto namang chinecheck.

Admit it or not, being pokmaru nowadays is no big deal. People normalizing pagiging marupok has become an excuse for being “ganito lang kasi ako” and “masisi mo ba ako kung mahal ko siya?”. Choosing the person who gives you both love and pain is an obvious human quandary, but it can also appear to be a moral decision in some situations. This generation has been contaminated with a toxic mindset about not guarding the heart very well. Thus, a lot of people are in disappointment, stress, anxiety, and pain. Gusto mo yorn?

KUNG HINDI, HUWAG KA NA MAGING MARUPOK!

Pigilan mo ang iyong sarili.

SELF-CONTROL has been underrated and not a must-talk about virtue. These days people focus more on justifying human beings as imperfect and not trying to discipline themselves. Today, however, is the ideal opportunity to be reminded of the importance of the aforementioned virtue.

Self-control is one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), therefore practicing it implies reflecting God’s Spirit. 

King Solomon said it best: “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life” (Proverbs 4:23).

As explained by Michel Hyatt & Co., there are three reasons why guarding our hearts is important.

  1. Because your heart is extremely valuable. That is to say, we don’t guard worthless things. We put things we value at the top list of priorities. UNAHIN MO ANG HEART MO.
  2. Because your heart is the source of everything you do. It is the “wellspring of life,” according to King Solomon. To put it another way, it is the foundation for everything else in your life. Your ideas, words, and actions overflow from your heart. Madalas dito nagkakatalo ang lahat kasi nagiging deceitful ang heart kaya be on guard about the decisions you make. “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he” (Proverbs 23:7). Kaya mag-ingat ka sa madalas mong isipin at alagaan sa iyong puso kasi ito ay salamin ng iyong pagkatao.
  3. Because your heart is under constant attack. When Solomon tells you to guard your heart, he’s implying that you’re living in a war zone with casualties. Dapat lang na magtayo ka ng pader para hindi ka madaling maakyat ng kalaban. ANG PUSO MO BES AY LAGING NASA BATTLEFIELD. Kaya kung hahayaan mong marupok ka nalang forever, palagi kang talo sa laban.

Narito ang pwede mong gawin:

PAUSE-PRAY-REFLECT can be used as a daily guide on improving your self-control. 

Pause– Matuto ka ng tinatawag na delikadesa, wag dakma ng dakma. Porke kinokompliment ka e, surrr why not diba. Hindi ganoon kapatid. Huwag padalos-dalos sa pagde-desisyon. Matuto kang mag masid muna o mag-isip man lang. Kaya ka nasasaktan dahil sa tingin mo wala nang bukas kailangan mo nang bumigay kaagad. 

KUNG GUSTO MAY PARAAN AT KUNG AYAW MAY DAHILAN.

Kahit na maubos mo lahat ng libro patungkol sa kung papaano hindi maging marupok, kung sa sarili mo palang ayaw mo nang gawin, wala namang kwenta. 

Pray- 

Huwag kayong mangabalisa sa anomang bagay; kundi sa lahat ng mga bagay sa pamamagitan ng panalangin at daing na may pagpapasalamat ay ipakilala ninyo ang inyong mga kahilingan sa Dios. (Mga Filipos 4:6)

Hindi ka superhero na kaya ang lahat. Palagi nating kailangan ng gabay. Kapag nariyan ka na sa punto na parang bibigay na, tumigil ka muna sandali at manalangin. Bibigyan ka Niya ng lakas para makapag-isip ng mabuti at makaalis sa tukso.

Reflect- 

Magmuni-muni ka sa kung ang mga desisyon mo ba ay makakabuti o makakasama sa iyo. Kapag nagawa mo na ang lahat ng ito,mas makikita mo ang kabuuang resulta ng gagawin mong pasya. 

Ngayon may pa affirmation kana, HINDI NA AKO DAPAT MAGING MARUPOK. IINGATAN KO ANG AKING PUSO.

Bukas makalawa magpaparamdam nanaman siya, sasabihin niya sayo: “Good morning Bhie”.

At dahil MARUPOK KA REREPLYAN MO SIYA. sUuurr why not diba 🙂

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